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hbspt.cta._relativeUrls=true;hbspt.cta.load(275132, '10016573-1c5c-4aa5-baba-c2ac91fe7545', {"useNewLoader":"true","region":"na1"}); CatholicMom.com Book Series at Ave Maria Press. GS 47 1. . Most fail to realize that the wholesale rejection of the Sabbath as the Christian day of worship did not start until almost 300 years after Christs ministry on earth. They kept the seventh day as the Sabbath, just as their fellow Jews of that time did. Patti and her husband, Mark, live in North Dakota, where they raised their 10 children. 24 Sir 3:2-6. Obedience toward parents ceases with the emancipation of the children; not so respect, which is always owed to them. 2222 Parents must regard their children as children of God and respect them as human persons. 15 Cf. And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceives the whole world: he was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him. As they grow up, children should continue to respect their parents. The Sabbath is the day on which Christs disciples should fellowship with and grow closer to each other. Not only is it our duty to parent in union with God but also it means we must also do the reverse: to respect all those whom God for our good has vested with his authority. As adults, we must still respect our parents, although we are no longer in a position where we must be obedient to them. 2237 Political authorities are obliged to respect the fundamental rights of the human person. We are not being told not to do something. - in keeping with the country's institutions, the right to medical care, assistance for the aged, and family benefits; 2229 As those first responsible for the education of their children, parents have the right to choose a school for them which corresponds to their own convictions. He reshapes our thinking and gives us the will and the power to resist our nature. "Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.". 2223 Parents have the first responsibility for the education of their children. 2204 "The Christian family constitutes a specific revelation and realization of ecclesial communion, and for this reason it can and should be called a domestic church. "26 "With all humility and meekness, with patience, [support] one another in charity. God wants us to take special time to worship Him. It likewise concerns the ties of kinship between members of the extended family. These may include parents, grandparents, other members of the family, pastors, catechists, and other teachers or friends. [9] Six days shall you labor, and do all your work: God not only became one of us, but he was born into a family with a mother, Our Blessed Mother Mary, and a father, St. Joseph.

We should use it to delight ourselves in Him by diligently seeking His help in our spiritual development and growth (Isaiah 58:14 Isaiah 58:14Then shall you delight yourself in the LORD; and I will cause you to ride on the high places of the earth, and feed you with the heritage of Jacob your father: for the mouth of the LORD has spoken it.American King James Version). The political rights attached to citizenship can and should be granted according to the requirements of the common good. 2241 The more prosperous nations are obliged, to the extent they are able, to welcome the foreigner in search of the security and the means of livelihood which he cannot find in his country of origin. 36 Cf. The theory of evolution, based on the idea that the world and everything in it developed from nothing, dominates the thinking of the most highly educated. American King James Version). Ladies of Another View and an award-winning author and journalist. When citizens are under the oppression of a public authority which oversteps its competence, they should still not refuse to give or to do what is objectively demanded of them by the common good; but it is legitimate for them to defend their own rights and those of their fellow citizens against the abuse of this authority within the limits of the natural law and the Law of the Gospel. Filial respect fosters harmony in all of family life. In a way, it can make us feel like we are still children, always needing to obey. 7 Eph 6:1-3; cf. The first-century apostles did not change it. 22 Col 3:20; Cf.

[2] And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made. So He came to Nazareth, where He had been brought up. Indeed, no human being, institution or state has ever had the right to tamper with what God has set apart as holy. Civil authority should consider it a grave duty "to acknowledge the true nature of marriage and the family, to protect and foster them, to safeguard public morality, and promote domestic prosperity. The commandment to honor and respect is put in positive terms. 2208 The family should live in such a way that its members learn to care and take responsibility for the young, the old, the sick, the handicapped, and the poor.

2210 The importance of the family for the life and well-being of society13 entails a particular responsibility for society to support and strengthen marriage and the family. In the procreation and education of children it reflects the Father's work of creation.

In whom the god of this world has blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine to them. Governing them well is not limited to guaranteeing rights and fulfilling duties such as honoring contracts. Then Paul, as his custom was, went in to them, and for three Sabbaths reasoned with them from the Scriptures (Acts 17:2 Acts 17:2And Paul, as his manner was, went in to them, and three sabbath days reasoned with them out of the scriptures,American King James Version). Right relations between employers and employees, between those who govern and citizens, presuppose a natural good will in keeping with the dignity of human persons concerned for justice and fraternity. "8 Respecting this commandment provides, along with spiritual fruits, temporal fruits of peace and prosperity. God said, through the pen of Isaiah: If you turn away your foot from the Sabbath, from doing your pleasure on My holy day, and call the Sabbath a delight, the holy day of the Lord honorable, and shall honor Him, not doing your own ways, nor finding your own pleasure, nor speaking your own words, then you shall delight yourself in the Lord; and I will cause you to ride on the high hills of the earth, and feed you with the heritage [the abundance of blessings] of Jacob your father. [3] And God blessed the seventh day, and sanctified it: because that in it he had rested from all his work which God created and made. (For a thorough explanation of the Sabbath, please read or request the free Bible study aid bookletSunset to Sunset: God's Sabbath Rest. 39 Mt 10:37; cf. He who loves his son will not spare the rod. There remains therefore a rest to the people of God. Its members are persons equal in dignity. 14 GS 52 2. The Church invites political authorities to measure their judgments and decisions against this inspired truth about God and man: 2245 The Church, because of her commission and competence, is not to be confused in any way with the political community. Only the divinely revealed religion has clearly recognized man's origin and destiny in God, the Creator and Redeemer. Political authorities, for the sake of the common good for which they are responsible, may make the exercise of the right to immigrate subject to various juridical conditions, especially with regard to the immigrants' duties toward their country of adoption. - the right to private property, to free enterprise, to obtain work and housing, and the right to emigrate; "20 "A wise son hears his father's instruction, but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke."21. Refusing obedience to civil authorities, when their demands are contrary to those of an upright conscience, finds its justification in the distinction between serving God and serving the political community. This respect has its roots in the fear of God, one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit. That is what the Sabbaththe seventh day of the weekprovides. . 43 Cf. The book of Hebrews confirms that decades after Christs death and resurrection, His followers were to continue to keep the Sabbath, affirming that there remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God (Hebrews 4:9 Hebrews 4:9There remains therefore a rest to the people of God.American King James Version, NIV). God reveals few details about how He created the universeonly that He did create it. The weekly time He has set perpetually apart to remind us that He is the Creator is the same weekly period during which He, more than at other times, instructs us as He molds us into His new creation. Help for Today, Hope for Tomorrow| Learn more With a UCG.org account you will be able to save items to read and study later! 2249 The conjugal community is established upon the covenant and consent of the spouses.

"Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. 2226 Education in the faith by the parents should begin in the child's earliest years.

Copyright permission for posting of the English translation of the CATECHISM OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH on the Saint Charles Borromeo Catholic Church web site was granted by Amministrazione Del Patrimonio Della Sede Apostolica, case number 130389. It shows us the order of charity. The reason our children are suppose to be obedient to us is because we are taking the place of God here on earth. The Sabbath, the seventh day of the week, was set apart by God as a time of rest and spiritual rejuvenation.

41 Mt 20:26. Yes, God was obedient to two humans, creatures that he created and was infinitely more powerful than. 2201 The conjugal community is established upon the consent of the spouses. 6 Mk 7:8-13. So noble is the position to which God has assigned them that they are not allowed to desert it.46, The Apostle exhorts us to offer prayers and thanksgiving for kings and all who exercise authority, "that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life, godly and respectful in every way."47. Amazing Grace series. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. [23] And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; 51 Cf. GE 6. As far as possible parents have the duty of choosing schools that will best help them in their task as Christian educators.38 Public authorities have the duty of guaranteeing this parental right and of ensuring the concrete conditions for its exercise. 2240 Submission to authority and co-responsibility for the common good make it morally obligatory to pay taxes, to exercise the right to vote, and to defend one's country: [Christians] reside in their own nations, but as resident aliens. . [24] And that you put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. 2217 As long as a child lives at home with his parents, the child should obey his parents in all that they ask of him when it is for his good or that of the family. Immigrants are obliged to respect with gratitude the material and spiritual heritage of the country that receives them, to obey its laws and to assist in carrying civic burdens. If this line of reasoning is leading you down a path you had not expected or wanted to go, it might be that you are finding a place to start the spiritual healing in your family. 2227 Children in turn contribute to the growth in holiness of their parents.36 Each and everyone should be generous and tireless in forgiving one another for offenses, quarrels, injustices, and neglect. 2239 It is the duty of citizens to contribute along with the civil authorities to the good of society in a spirit of truth, justice, solidarity, and freedom. 2235 Those who exercise authority should do so as a service. It explains why and when we need to take special time to draw closer to our Creator on the seventh day. 19952022 All correspondence and questions should be sent to info@ucg.org. 25 Sir 3:12-13, 16. Especially, why set aside the seventh day? 21 Prov 13:1. As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that you may grow thereby: Then shall you delight yourself in the LORD; and I will cause you to ride on the high places of the earth, and feed you with the heritage of Jacob your father: for the mouth of the LORD has spoken it. The Sabbath is the primary day for concentrated development of our inner person in Christ. The substitution of Sunday for the Sabbath took hold largely through a political decision made by the Roman Emperor Constantine, who legalized Christianity to secure political advantage over a defeated contender for the office of emperor. Send inquiries regarding the operation of this Web site to webmaster@ucg.org. Whoever glorifies his father will have long life, and whoever obeys the Lord will refresh his mother. This right is fundamental. That is what the Sabbaththe seventh day of the weekprovides. "41 The exercise of authority is measured morally in terms of its divine origin, its reasonable nature and its specific object. They should assume their new responsibilities within a trusting relationship with their parents, willingly asking and receiving their advice and counsel. . 37 Cf. "Grandchildren are the crown of the aged. 2206 The relationships within the family bring an affinity of feelings, affections and interests, arising above all from the members' respect for one another. But these were his parents, so he obeyed them as an example to us. 2232 Family ties are important but not absolute. 2200 Observing the fourth commandment brings its reward: "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which the LORD your God gives you. Most societies have formed their institutions in the recognition of a certain preeminence of man over things. Too bad we did not esteem it when we were children ourselves. They bear witness to this responsibility first by creating a home where tenderness, forgiveness, respect, fidelity, and disinterested service are the rule. American King James Version). Parents should teach children to avoid the compromising and degrading influences which threaten human societies. This new man . Paul sums up this struggle: For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. Rom 13:1-2. 40 Mt 12:49. - the freedom to establish a family, have children, and bring them up in keeping with the family's own moral and religious convictions; - the protection of the stability of the marriage bond and the institution of the family; - the freedom to profess one's faith, to hand it on, and raise one's children in it, with the necessary means and institutions; - the right to private property, to free enterprise, to obtain work and housing, and the right to emigrate; - in keeping with the country's institutions, the right to medical care, assistance for the aged, and family benefits; - the protection of security and health, especially with respect to dangers like drugs, pornography, alcoholism, etc. As Hebrews 10:24-25 Hebrews 10:24-25 [24] And let us consider one another to provoke to love and to good works: 'that it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth."'7.

2218 The fourth commandment reminds grown children of their responsibilities toward their parents. Why? 26 Prov 17:6. The whole world falls prey to his influence (1 John 5:19 1 John 5:19And we know that we are of God, and the whole world lies in wickedness.American King James Version). Observing the Sabbath brings that fact to the forefront of our minds every week. Respect toward parents fills the home with light and warmth. "I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you. Pay to all of them their dues, taxes to whom taxes are due, revenue to whom revenue is due, respect to whom respect is due, honor to whom honor is due. His objective has always been to destroy the relationship between the true God and humanity. It shapes the way we perceive and worship Him. God Himself develops holy and righteous spiritual character within us. . Mutual affection suggests this. He does all he can to influence us to ignore, avoid or reason our way around it. "We must obey God rather than men" (Acts 5:29). This requires an apprenticeship in self-denial, sound judgment, and self-mastery - the preconditions of all true freedom. [11] For in six days the LORD made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: why the LORD blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it. They should associate them from their tenderest years with the life of the Church.34 A wholesome family life can foster interior dispositions that are a genuine preparation for a living faith and remain a support for it throughout one's life. As the real god of this age (2 Corinthians 4:4 2 Corinthians 4:4In whom the god of this world has blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine to them.American King James Version), he has deceived most of humankind (Revelation 12:9 Revelation 12:9And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceives the whole world: he was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him.American King James Version). Yes, Jesus and His apostles consistently obeyed Gods command to keep the Sabbath holy. Prov 1:8; Tob 4:3-4. 12 Jas 1:27. "Render therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's. That is how crucial this knowledge is. 2202 A man and a woman united in marriage, together with their children, form a family. Although it is a day of rest from our normal routines and a time for rejuvenation, it is not a day to do nothing, as some assume. Marriage and the family are ordered to the good of the spouses and to the procreation and education of children. The old man will inevitably succumb to the weaknesses and pulls of human nature. CA 45; 46. "Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. "52, 2246 It is a part of the Church's mission "to pass moral judgments even in matters related to politics, whenever the fundamental rights of man or the salvation of souls requires it. (2199). The Apostle exhorts us to offer prayers and thanksgiving for kings and all who exercise authority, "that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life, godly and respectful in every way.". Holy Hacks: Everyday Ways to Live Your Faith & Get to Heaven. 2225 Through the grace of the sacrament of marriage, parents receive the responsibility and privilege of evangelizing their children. The neighbor is not a "unit" in the human collective; he is "someone" who by his known origins deserves particular attention and respect. After all, Friday night and Saturday bustle with all sorts of sports, business and other secular activities. Gods commandment to us remainsRemember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy (Exodus 20:8 Exodus 20:8Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.American King James Version). American King James Version). It devolves then on other persons, other families, and, in a subsidiary way, society to provide for their needs: "Religion that is pure and undefiled before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction and to keep oneself unstained from the world."12. 4 Ex 20:12; Deut 5:16. 2198 This commandment is expressed in positive terms of duties to be fulfilled. It shall be to you a sabbath of rest, and you shall afflict your souls: in the ninth day of the month at even, from even to even, shall you celebrate your sabbath. Without the light the Gospel sheds on God and man, societies easily become totalitarian. Marriage and family are ordered to the good of the spouses, to the procreation and the education of children. The Sabbath, the day set aside to remind us regularly that our Creator is the only true God, is vital to our relationship with Him. 2243 Armed resistance to oppression by political authority is not legitimate, unless all the following conditions are met: 1) there is certain, grave, and prolonged violation of fundamental rights; 2) all other means of redress have been exhausted; 3) such resistance will not provoke worse disorders; 4) there is well-founded hope of success; and 5) it is impossible reasonably to foresee any better solution. It is called to partake of the prayer and sacrifice of Christ. American King James Version). Societies not recognizing this vision or rejecting it in the name of their independence from God are brought to seek their criteria and goal in themselves or to borrow them from some ideology. 2255 It is the duty of citizens to work with civil authority for building up society in a spirit of truth, justice, solidarity, and freedom.

May 10, 2013 1:00:37 PM|by Patti Maguire Armstrong. But if a child is convinced in conscience that it would be morally wrong to obey a particular order, he must not do so. Also, the fact is that all parents are not religious or providing good examples. He tells us how much special time we need to set aside for our relationship with Him and when to take it. Whereby are given to us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these you might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.

2252 Parents have the first responsibility for the education of their children in the faith, prayer, and all the virtues. Could failure to follow Gods commands be robbing our family of grace? We are obliged to honor and respect all those whom God, for our good, has vested with his authority. (2197). At the time I thought, Cool, I wouldnt mind. But with the experience of motherhood, I sometimes wonder if its payback time now. Whoever forsakes his father is like a blasphemer, and whoever angers his mother is cursed by the Lord.25, 2219 Filial respect promotes harmony in all of family life; it also concerns relationships between brothers and sisters. The love and service of one's country follow from the duty of gratitude and belong to the order of charity. Otherwise, we forfeit that special understanding of Him as the Creator of the entire universe. Even some scholars who profess Christianity accept the evolutionary viewpoint. Conversely, failure to observe it brings great harm to communities and to individuals. 52 GS 76 3. is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him (Colossians 3:10 Colossians 3:10 And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:American King James Version). After six days of setting in order this beautiful earth and everything in it, our Creator ceased from molding the physical part of His creation and rested on the seventh day (Genesis 2:1-3 Genesis 2:1-3 [1] Thus the heavens and the earth were finished, and all the host of them.